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    Conflict with others are common in everyday life.During the basketball game yesterday afternoon, Su Hua and Li Jiang bumped into each other,tring to catch the ball. Then they started shouting and yelling, and it turned into a horrible quarrel.

    To be honest, it was Su's fault but Li was also to be blame—they were not calm enough and both said some really mean things. They eared too much about winning and losing.As a matter of fact,blocking ,pushing and bumping are just part of a tough game.

   To avoid such conflict, we should be kind to one another,which is essential to enjoying a harmonious life. It is aslo a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and stressful society. Instead of blaming each other, we should communicate more and put camly and other's place.

    Don't be self-centered and try to be considerate. We must learn to handle conflicts calmly and wisely.